by Clay Andrews
I have been dumped before, so I know what it feels like. You've read all of the tips out there, but your gut instinct tells you to disregard it or that your current situation is so different the rules don't apply. And in the end you just make the same mistakes you know you shouldn't make.
Here are a few bits of <a href="http://thepathtopassion.com/men/">relationship advice</a> about the most common break up mistakes:
<b>First, they get overcome by feelings of rejection</b> - Ever called your ex ten times in the same day, simply to hear her voice again, understand why she left (again), or to get closure? I have, and this isn't good for you.
No matter whether you hope to reconcile with her or not, this isn't a good move. It pushes her further away from you by making you appear desperate. And, it just reopens the injuries of break time after time again making you relive the agony and negativity between the both of you.
<b>Secondly dating other ladies to straight away</b> - We should be honest here. You're hurt. You need time to recover. If you jump right into the dating scene after a break up, you are not dealing with your emotions from the break up in a good way. You're essentially stuffing them down and hoping they will leave, or you are burying them in a fresh relationship (which can cause problems between you and your new girlfriend too).
If you're making an attempt to work things out with your ex girlfriend, do not think that going out with someone new will make her envious and wish to come back to you. It'll typically simply make her think that you are moving on with your life and that she should too.
<b>Thirdly seeing the split up as a negative thing</b> - I know break ups hurt. They can be a major problem in life. But every ending may also be a fresh start. Try and find the positive side to your break, no matter what happens between you and your old girlfriend.
Agree with it or not, this can be a good chance to turn your life in a rather more positive direction. You are essentially free to do anything and be anything you want with no need to worry about how it affects your ex girlfriend's life. The question , then becomes, what would you opt to create with your life?
I know that splits could be a real challenge. Try to avoid these errors and take things in a positive direction.
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Title: The Largest Mistakes Guys Make After a Break Up
Author: Clay Andrews
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Keywords: break up mistakes,mistakes after a break up,break up advice
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Category: Relationships
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