by Daniel D. Dalton
If you were dumped, then your mind is in all probability restless and your emotions are running high. Without a special plan to get her back you could be making a lot of faults. In addition, you are blowing your chances of ever getting her back.
If getting her back is your ultimate goal then you should read the rest of this article to get the low down on how to win her back.
<b>The First Move</b>
To avoid making any common errors after a breakup, you should first get your emotions in check. Many guys make the mistake of trying to get their ex back by buying new things or showering with expensive gifts. The hard truth is that you will just look like a weakling and end up looking needy. So if you are guilty of giving her flowers, perfumes or expensive, pricey gift, you need to end it immediately. Is this making sense to you? Probably not, but you should just take it easy for now and stop this type of behavior.
<b>Stop All Communication</b>
What you should be doing is cutting off all contact. Yes, no contact. No email, no text, no drunk calling. She cold-cocked you for her reasons and you should honor that. Give her the space and time to consider things over and don't crowd her. This will make her second guess the choice to breakup, if you are not always "around".
By giving her time to reflect, you can give yourself some time to think over the relationship as well. Remember, it takes two to tango and you played a part in the relationship, as well. If you messed up and caused the relationship to go under then now is the time to consider why you did, what you did. Take a long deep look at yourself, and figure out what you need to change for the better.
Are you an angry type with a short fuse? Maybe, you have no patience when it comes to what you wish for. You should consider probing your inner devils and how you can put a lid on your poisonous side. There are many ways to put your energies into something more productive.
<b>Do You Trust Her?</b>
Do you have trust issues with your ex girlfriend?Are you always skeptical of your ex? Do you find yourself speculating who she's with and where she's been?You need to look within and see if you are the jealous type and get insecure with any male figure in your ex's life. This might stem from your own self value. It might help to look try and boost your self worth.
On the other hand, did you cheat on your ex? If you did, then you need to determine the reason behind it. Was there something missing from the relationship that you didn't get from your ex? This will help mend a few affairs and help you work through this breakup to correct it or move onward.
<b>The Truth</b>
The truth of the matter is that the breakup is serious. Now is the time to look within and find some comfort because there is no single reason for a breakup. You will need to put some effort and work to fix this situation. Simply saying you are sorry just won't work. Women are complex and it is no simple fix. So take the time and learn the best methods to getting your ex back, no matter how bad the breakup was.
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Title: Winning an Ex Girlfriend Back Without Regrets
Author: Daniel D. Dalton
Email: anthony.santiago@gmail.com
Keywords: breakup,relationships,get ex back,ex girlfriend,ex wife,win ex back,relationships,dating,dating,relationships,people
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Category: Relationships
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